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March 3, 2025 – Purple Hair, Hipster Beard, Muffin Top, Skinny Jeans…

March 3, 2025 /

Flannel, messenger bag and mock combat boots. Have I painted the picture yet? Meet Generation Z, the latest Artist generation that is coming of age. The last Artist generation were the Silents. I read a snippet of Co-Pilot, Microsoft’s AI to see what they have to say about Gen Z, but I also talk about some other things going on in life related to my ability to relate to them.

Generation Z: A Portrait of Individuality and Trendsetting

Exploring the Unique Disposition and Iconic Characteristics

Generation Z, born between the mid-1990s and early 2010s, is a generation marked by its distinctive approach to individuality, self-expression, and cultural trends. This generation is defined not just by its digital fluency and social consciousness but also by its bold and eclectic sense of style. Characteristics such as purple hair, hipster beards, muffin tops, and skinny jeans have become emblematic of Gen Z, reflecting a broader disposition that embraces diversity, creativity, and a rejection of conventional norms.

Purple Hair: A Statement of Bold Individuality

One of the most striking features often associated with Generation Z is the vibrant and unconventional hair color choices, notably purple hair. For many Gen Z individuals, dyeing their hair in bold colors like purple serves as a powerful statement of identity and self-expression. It is a visual representation of their willingness to stand out, challenge societal expectations, and embrace their unique personalities. This trend also signifies a broader cultural shift towards acceptance and celebration of diverse aesthetics, where non-conformity is not only tolerated but celebrated.

Hipster Beard: A Blend of Tradition and Modernity

The hipster beard, characterized by its full and well-groomed appearance, is another distinctive feature embraced by many in Generation Z. This trend reflects a blend of traditional masculinity with modern sensibilities, wherein young men take pride in their grooming and personal style. The hipster beard is often seen as a symbol of a laid-back yet sophisticated lifestyle, one that values authenticity, craftsmanship, and a connection to both the past and the present. It is an expression of the generation’s appreciation for aesthetic detail and a rejection of the clean-cut conventions of previous eras.

Muffin Top: Redefining Body Positivity

The term “muffin top” refers to the slight overflow of flesh above the waistband of tight-fitting pants or skirts. In the context of Generation Z, it represents a broader movement towards body positivity and the acceptance of all body types. This generation challenges the narrow beauty standards that have long dominated mainstream media and promotes a more inclusive and realistic portrayal of the human body. The embrace of the muffin top is a rejection of body-shaming and an affirmation that beauty comes in all shapes and sizes. It is a testament to Gen Z’s commitment to fostering a culture of self-love and acceptance.

Skinny Jeans: A Fashion Staple with a Twist

Skinny jeans, with their form-fitting silhouette, have become a staple in the wardrobes of many Gen Z individuals. This trend illustrates the generation’s penchant for fashion that is both comfortable and expressive. Skinny jeans are versatile, allowing for endless styling possibilities, and can be paired with a wide range of tops and accessories to create a look that is uniquely personalized. For Gen Z, fashion is not just about following trends but about curating a style that reflects their individuality and creativity. The popularity of skinny jeans underscores the generation’s desire for authenticity and self-expression through fashion.

The Broader Disposition of Generation Z

Beyond these specific characteristics, Generation Z’s disposition is characterized by a few key traits that define their approach to life and culture:

  • Digital Natives: Gen Z is the first generation to grow up with the internet and digital technology as integral parts of their daily lives. This has shaped their communication styles, social interactions, and access to information.
  • Social Consciousness: This generation is highly aware of social and environmental issues and is committed to making a positive impact. They are vocal advocates for causes such as climate change, social justice, and equality.
  • Inclusivity and Diversity: Gen Z values diversity in all its forms and strives for a more inclusive society. They celebrate differences in race, gender, sexuality, and culture, and seek to break down barriers that divide people.
  • Entrepreneurial Spirit: With access to digital tools and platforms, many Gen Z individuals are entrepreneurial, using technology to start businesses, create content, and innovate in various fields. They are not afraid to take risks and pursue unconventional career paths.
  • Mental Health Awareness: This generation is more open about discussing mental health and seeking help when needed. They prioritize well-being and advocate for reducing the stigma around mental health issues.

In conclusion, Generation Z’s disposition is a fascinating blend of bold self-expression, cultural awareness, and a commitment to inclusivity and social change. Characteristics such as purple hair, hipster beards, muffin tops, and skinny jeans are more than just fashion statements; they are symbols of a generation that values individuality, creativity, and authenticity. As Gen Z continues to shape the cultural landscape, their unique traits and values will undoubtedly leave a lasting impact on society.

December 12, 2023 – Using Our Gifts

December 12, 2023 /

If you listened to my podcast on Wednesday last week then you would know that there has been tragedy in the extended family. I still don’t know many details and if or when I do, I am not sure that I am going to reveal them here. Today is not about that but because of that.

Now, a quick timeline of events for context. November 28th (Monday) I finished work and had a doctor’s appointment. I went up to remind my wife and she asked me to pick up our niece from elementary school. Her daycare was closing early because of an accident to her child. The next day, I only worked a few hours because it was my grandmother’s funeral. My wife stayed back with her family. I called in late afternoon to check-in, I was going to go out to eat with my family after all of the services. My wife said ‘It is bad… really bad. He didn’t make it, in fact it wasn’t an accident but he was shot to death.’

By the time I came home from dinner, my wife was drinking with her cousin. This one event spun her into an emotional free for all. I would say that she was paralyzed by sadness and empathy for the remainder of the week. I don’t know why God made her the way that he did. I also don’t know why God made me the way that I did. I felt dull and detached but I couldn’t empathize with paralyzing grief,

I am no good in these situations. I could be the one delivering the news in a non-emotional manner, not the one comforting people that are nearly out of their minds. I don’t know what to say. Is it appropriate to touch? Should I converse or stay aloof? What if I say the wrong thing? I have no problem with small talk, but I feel like this is not the place or situation for such things. I just don’t know, you might say that I am paralyzed by human interaction.

I do know that God gave me the gift of action though. I took action on building a roadside cross. It is now painted white and waiting until we are informed of the actual site (that information is being withheld as part of the investigation). I wanted a wood that would last as close as forever so I had a cedar railing post that I have held onto for 15 years.

I did all the joinery and built it with care. I don’t want anyone thinking that I didn’t put my full talent and energy into my form of contribution. I filled the gaps and sanded it smooth. I wanted the cross to be as perfect as I could make it. Finally, I spray painted and painted and painted some more until the surface was glossy smooth.

End Your Programming Routine: God made us different so that we could be the best at whatever gift he gave us. I am not the worlds best woodworker but I also could focus on building this piece of peace without the emotional torment that others had. And I suppose that if we were all the comforting type, who would be there to build the cross? So, I will end where I started. I don’t know why I am the way I am but I hope that the way I am can bring it’s own comfort.